Here’s a hard truth that some people really need to hear:
There’s an expiry date for blaming what happened to you in the past for how you show up now.
The way our parents brought us up may have SOME influence on who we are and how we choose to show up. But we cannot let them become our excuse.
I’ve been a part of so many conversations where things like, “if only my life happened this way” or “when I’m a parent, I’m going to make sure I do this or don’t do this because I wish someone had done this for me”
And while it’s all well and good to learn from your own experiences and learn from the “mistakes” of others, it’s important that we realise that the choices made on our behalf in the past don’t dictate our future, unless we let it.
Tune into this episode for:
- My challenge for you today so you can start taking responsibility and initiative for your life, your choices and how you choose to show up.